Warm and enthusiastic
Empathetic and caring
Strong people skills
Strong communication skills
Fun and spontaneous
Highly creative
Needs approval from others
Disorganized
Tends to get stressed out easily
Can be overly emotional
Overthinks
Struggles to follow rules
Each personality type is composed of four cognitive functions that relate to how people process information and make decisions. It is the first two functions that play the most obvious role in personality. The latter two functions also play a role in personality, although their influence may only arise in certain settings or situations.
ENFPs generally focus on the world of possibilities. They are good at abstract thinking and prefer not to concentrate on tiny details.4 They are inventive and focused on the future. ENFPs are good at seeing things as they might be rather than focusing simply on what they are. They have a natural tendency to focus on relationships and are skilled at finding patterns and connections between people, situations, and ideas.
When making decisions, ENFPs place a greater value on feelings and values rather than on logic and objective criteria. They tend to follow their heart, empathize with others, and let their emotions guide their decisions. ENFPs have a strong desire to be true to themselves and their values. In an ideal world, their world would be in congruence with their values.
This cognitive function is centered on logically organizing information and ideas. When looking at information, the ENFP may use this function to sort through disparate data to efficiently spot connections. For example, an ENFP might "think out loud" as they are working through a problem, laying out all the information to create an easily followed train of thought.
ENFPs express this function by comparing the things they are experiencing at the moment to past experiences. In doing so, they are often able to call to mind memories, feelings, and senses that they associate with those events. This allows the individual to seek patterns and form expectations for future events based upon their previous experiences.
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ENFPs make fun and exciting friends. They enjoy doing new things and usually have a wide circle of friends and acquaintances. They are perceptive of other people's feelings and can figure people out quite quickly.6 You can help your ENFP friends by being the emotional support they need to achieve their goals.
Because ENFPs dislike routine, their children may sometimes perceive them as inconsistent. However, they typically have strong, loving relationships with their kids and are good at imparting their sense of values. Parents of ENFP children will find that their child has a strong sense of imagination and a great deal of enthusiasm for life. Your child's energy may seem overwhelming at times, but you should look for ways to help your child explore their creativity. One struggle they may face is with providing structure and limits. While they recognize the need for such things, they are not always good at setting or enforcing such limitations. Parents of ENFPs should encourage their kids to be creative, but provide rules and guidelines.7
ENFPs tend to be passionate and enthusiastic in romantic relationships. Long-term relationships can sometimes hit a snag because people with this personality type are always thinking about what is possible rather than simply focusing on things as they are. In order to keep the romance alive, it is important to look for new ways to bring excitement into the relationship.